my thought

I think realisation becomes a hard learning. Yes hard learning. It does not condition you; it just prepares you for the worse. I am the side of coin that is an example of failures. Failures because of risks I have been taking, knowing that they do not come under standard operating procedures. SOP’s are meant for safe gliding which again does not guarantee you a 100 percent sponge landing. Yes I chose to do the opposite and with little or no luck favouring me I am still living.

Things I realised while am sitting quietly with nothing to do are-

#         It is not about winning- Winning is great. Winners are the face of everyone’s efforts and a loud statement that yes I performed better. But all the celebrations are always short lived.  You are expected to win all the time, and once your winning streak ends, then what? Does that mean you aren’t a winner anymore and you should find a corner and sulk throughout your life? NO, a big NO! The game is about how much you can take the losses and still continue to give your best or at least play. That spirit is life.

#         Own your platform- Whatever you do, or start to do, make sure you stick to your principles. That defines your character. And a good strong character is always appreciated. Appreciation gives you confidence to do better or move forward

#         Don’t show sorrow- Nobody wants to see a crying person for long time. They may come for your help initially, but if things don’t work out, they leave and look for a smiling person where they don’t have to be pressurised to do something for them.

#         Don’t expect help- Call for help and get things done easily without a sweat. Who doesn’t want it. It saves time and effort. But if you are on other side of the table, you aren’t a happy person, coz you have to go out of your way to help the other person. If you take the statistics/ probability anything the ratios are always compromised. Why don’t you take that effort, and if someone comes along good enough.

#         There are always 2 roads- Abundance as you must’ve heard it. There are always options in life. These options could be based out of, traditional quotes, experience, good, bad evil anything. I mean to say you can always do something to survive. As far as you are running don’t worry about a less rewarding path unlike your friends or relatives. You are eventually going to meet him at a common point where nothing matters.