I think realisation becomes a hard learning. Yes hard
learning. It does not condition you; it just prepares you for the worse. I am
the side of coin that is an example of failures. Failures because of risks I
have been taking, knowing that they do not come under standard operating
procedures. SOP’s are meant for safe gliding which again does not guarantee you
a 100 percent sponge landing. Yes I chose to do the opposite and with little or
no luck favouring me I am still living.
Things I realised while am sitting quietly with nothing to
do are-
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It is not
about winning- Winning is great. Winners are the face of everyone’s efforts
and a loud statement that yes I performed better. But all the celebrations are
always short lived. You are expected to
win all the time, and once your winning streak ends, then what? Does that mean
you aren’t a winner anymore and you should find a corner and sulk throughout
your life? NO, a big NO! The game is about how much you can take the losses and
still continue to give your best or at least play. That spirit is life.
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Own your
platform- Whatever you do, or start to do, make sure you stick to your
principles. That defines your character. And a good strong character is always
appreciated. Appreciation gives you confidence to do better or move forward
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Don’t
show sorrow- Nobody wants to see a crying person for long time. They may
come for your help initially, but if things don’t work out, they leave and look
for a smiling person where they don’t have to be pressurised to do something
for them.
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Don’t
expect help- Call for help and get things done easily without a sweat. Who
doesn’t want it. It saves time and effort. But if you are on other side of the
table, you aren’t a happy person, coz you have to go out of your way to help
the other person. If you take the statistics/ probability anything the ratios
are always compromised. Why don’t you take that effort, and if someone comes
along good enough.
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There are
always 2 roads- Abundance as you must’ve heard it. There are always options
in life. These options could be based out of, traditional quotes, experience,
good, bad evil anything. I mean to say you can always do something to survive.
As far as you are running don’t worry about a less rewarding path unlike your
friends or relatives. You are eventually going to meet him at a common point
where nothing matters.
